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Sandwich Families And Elder Care
Your daughter feels like she has two Mothers. You feel like you are back in the sixth grade. Your husband is weary from the overtime he works. You are one of the growing number of sandwich families in America. Mom or Dad is now living with your family while you're still raising your children.
A show of hands at one of my fraternal organization meetings showed three of ten members had a parent living under their roof. The meeting went into extra innings as people shared their experiences. Adding a senior citizen to the household when you are bringing up kids of your own creates a new dynamic.
Our group supports the local senior center. We organized an evening of entertainment with light supper and a silent auction. With the support of local businesses we had quite a collection of items ready for bids.
We did several events to raise funds for the program. We sold chances to win hdtv plasma tvs during the past year. A kitchenaid food processor was the drawing prize for supporting businesses in town. Lots of small appliances were donated to our massive indoor bazaar including a delonghi space heater.
One couple shared the dynamic of having a child and a parent that used diapers. There was lots of talk about the 'reality check'. Critical grandmothers are not always appreciated by today's teen. Conflicts can arise from comments about clothes, makeup, and music. One parent talked about the 'trigger' words list in their home.
For parents of active kids it can be a real magic trick to get everyone to and from their activities. Now the live-in parents will have to have their needs fulfilled too. This can mean regular scheduled medical appointments for long-term therapy. It may also mean shopping at different stores to obtain specialty foods and products.
We are continuing are efforts to support hot meals at the center. This winter we are adding home delivered meals for shut-in seniors. The food is all being prepared in the kitchen at the center. Volunteers transport the meals in their personal vehicles.
The sandwich family scenario can work with understanding, compassion, and teamwork. Community solutions can enhance the quality of life for those in elder care and their families. In many cities multiple community service and fraternal organizations have formed joint task forces to make long term commitments to elder care initiatives. This tactic results in retaining support and expanding programs in the future.
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